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Monday, September 19, 2005

Mayb its time to change ur perspectives...

hmm... in the midst of all the exam stress n strife... i m here for a short while typin a small entry on a small blog tt exists in the wide wide world of the INTERNET... ok... sounds crappy... haha... but its juz tt i hav some tots which i tink i shld write down... it shld apply to some pple... since i only got those tots after readin some blogs... but den again... no one is obliged to take note of wad i say... :)... i guess sometimes things r not abt reciprocation *hope i spelt it rite... i always hav prob wif this word*... tt's a hard fact tt i told myself like how many moons ago... but im still strugglin to accept it... pple do tire when they r tryin to maintain relationships, frenships or wadever not... frustration sets in... partly becos we tink tt the other party is simply not interested, so y r we makin ourselves appear like silly little fools tryin so hard to show our concern only to c it end in apparent futility???... but den... to put in another way... when u first agreed to be his/her fren... its equivalent to signin a life-time agreement tt u will nva fail him/her as n when they nd u... tt's the promise of frenship to me... whether others can or bother to keep it or not is not my business... wad matters is tt im able to keep tt promise... so i guess its a change of perspective... look on the side of the other person sometimes... mayb they do not hav such an intention or did not intend to make u feel tt way... cos every action or gesture can yield a thousand interpretations... well... be sad abt it at first... den laugh it out n forget abt such issues n move on... its totally meaningless to ponder or tink abt it... simply cos no matter how much u tink... things wont change until u do smth abt it... yup... juz some random tots... sorry if it doesn't appear too coherent... :)... to all out there slayin the "exam demons" on the battlefield... gambatte!!!... the war will soon be over!!! :)

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

hurt by my friends, sometimes I thought I found the right one but once they ditch or backstabbed you, you get hurtled, the words and action they do just shattered you heart. And once you got back on your feet they tried means or ways to either come back to you or to hurt you with their words shaped like knives that pierce right through your heart. I experienced it far too well and somehow I like to thank god and my family to give me the support/strength to get back on my feet. Often after these experiences I would stay strong but being a sentimental person I often break down and fall to the darkest, deepest space and crashed on the sharpest of crags and prongs that await my fall.

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