Invisible barriers...
hmm... a few pple hav tolked to me recently abt them havin a bit of prob wif their frens... sayin tt they r gettin more n more distant... well... my only comment abt this situation is tt this is a "frenship crisis"... (tho smtimes it might not even be an existin crisis at all... but nvm)... dependin on the way u handle them... the frenship can backslide into a state of no salvation or u might juz hav a chance of maintainin tt close frenship as usual... but one special thing abt this crisis is tt it tends to disturb sensitive pple... *like me*... haha... well... cos mayb sensitive pple do take a LOT of notice abt not only wad other pple say to them... but also abt the way u say it... by tt i can refer to facial expressions as well... so pple who r not tt sensitive... do kindly take note of this... n i mean it... u nva noe when u will hurt a sensitive person... *gosh... m i describin sensitive pple like very scary pple???*
back to the pt... hmm... my advice for the pple disturbed by the above prob is tt u shld hav a gd talk wif ur fren... n nva set up this stupid "invisible barrier"... *which costs me a few of my gd frens*... cos the moment u do... u will be reluctant to share stuff wif ur frens... n b4 long... u wun feel like sharin stuff wif ur fren anymore... n tt's when ur close relationship is gone... really... its tough for us... but tt's smthin which we really shldn't do... :)
hope this entry above can help some of u out there a bit... :)
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