Love to Hate...

A few wks ago, i heard this story from the radio broadcast... its abt Andersen's love life... well... one sentence struck me the most... " there must be love in order to hate, and the greater the love, the greater the hate..." haha... sounded very cheem to me... but i like these kind of phrases... leaves u some room for imagination... :)
Hmm... i tink this statement is really meaningful... n it does not apply to only BGR ( tho in this context, it does lah...) but rather, it applies to all kinds of relationships... dun u absolutely hate it when ur very best fren actually betrays u??? dun u hate it when ur parents dun keep a promise???... tink now... if it was juz an ordinary person who betrayed u or broke a promise... well... at most u will juz giv him a gd scoldin... or juz ignore him... but lets say some1 u love actually does tt... the hatred tt is evoked is really big... n its very to the power of n difficult to ever forgive tt person for hurtin u...
mayb i tell a bit of the story... Andersen had this lady who had a relationship wif him... this lady was an actress... n when she went overseas one day... she told Andersen to do somethin for her... but he forgot... n he was very guilty abt it... he went to c her to apologize... but the lady said tt she did not hate him... followed by the sentence: " I must love u in order to hate u..." Andersen was very very disheartened... (poor fellow...:( )...cos it was a severe shock to him tt all along... there had been no love between them... sad story...